Opinion: The eternal birthday present
By Kathryn Reed
My parents gave me a gift at an early age that I continue to enjoy today – the love of sport.
I don’t know if they knew they were doing that at the time, but I thank them for it. They are why I ski (we learned together – they were 40, I was 10), they are why I play tennis (mom enrolled me in a community program at about 10), they are why I love the water (I was called a fish as a kid), and they are why I embrace the outdoors (so many family camping trips).
My earliest memories of sports center around the water – swimming and skiing. At 4 I was a fairly proficient swimmer. I went on to compete in AAU swimming, making it to Far West Championships on a relay team. At 6 I was on water skis. Not long thereafter I asked if I could try a slalom ski. Mom said not until I was good at going over the wake on both sides. I demonstrated that that day. Mom acquiesced. I learned to beach start like she did. However, I never was able to drop back into the water without getting my hair wet as she would do.
I have such wonderful memories of ski trips to Lake Tahoe while growing up in the Bay Area. There were three families who annually stayed at a house in Squaw Valley – right on the slopes. (No wonder I think vacation home rentals are normal.) And so many weekends were also spent at Northstar – pre-village and overdevelopment.
Then there was tennis. Mrs. Lackey toughened me up. She taught us to aim for our opponent and if we felt sick, vomit off the court, and then keep playing. I’m not saying those are the best things to learn, but they’ve stuck with me. It might be why a year or two ago I continued playing in a USTA match despite a groin pull – quitting didn’t cross my mind even though losing was inevitable. It might be why in college when I tweaked my Achilles’ I was OK with the trainer taping it and still playing. All the injury did was get me out of running up the hill every practice. Not playing wasn’t an option I ever considered.
Mom had me playing in junior leagues, which led to four years of high school varsity tennis and a year in college. I’ve played competitively on and off as an adult; currently I’m on two USTA (United States Tennis Association) teams out of Zephyr Cove Tennis Club.
As a kid, these experiences were about family, friends, being outdoors, and just playing. It’s the same today — having fun with friends on the court, the slopes and trails.
Who knows if I would have embraced these activities if it weren’t for my parents.
Today, as I mark the half century milestone, I can’t thank my parents enough for introducing me to so many sports – some of which I continue to participate in, some that I was never going to excel at (gymnastics), and others that I tend to spectate more than play (baseball). All of them, though, hold a special memory.
And I thank them for taking me to see professional sports – mostly tennis, a little baseball and football, the 1984 Olympics in Los Angeles; as well as watching them on TV.
All of it fueled my desire to be an athlete and a sports fan.
What a present – the lifelong gift of sport.
Happy Birthday Kae !
Happy Birthday Kae ! Have fun.
Happy Birthday Kae, I grew up in Tahoe and loved the Lake and all the things we could do on the water.
Once again,
HAPPY BIRTHDAY.
Happy 50th Kae. Up to now now it’s all been warm up and practice. Now the fun gets serious. And, as you’ve already learned, the serious is lots of fun.
happy birthday, kae. i read your piece and reflected on my parents’ sacrifice to make sure i and my siblings had every chance to play sports. my mother water skied well into her eighties, and could pull off the ‘no wet hair’ landing, too!
What a delightful article and a tribute to good parents. You are in the right place and we are grateful for you presence. Enjoy you significant b-day.
Great gift to recognize your parents for Kae. Isn’t it funny that it takes us longer in life to really recognize the gifts that were provided for us so many years ago. Happy birthday Fish.
Happy Birthday Kae! Sounds like you have had a good life.Enjoy your birthday and keep writing!
Bob Rockwell (OLS).
Yep. Dad drove the boat, mom held the flag, Tami and Pam cheered from the back seat, and I was left dangling my legs in the lake (full of dead bodies) after helping you get up on your skis, watching as you waterskiied away on your spindly little six year old legs. Wow! The photo is still impressive 44 years later!
Congrats on your special day & for sharing your good memories.
Happy birthday to Kae! And now, on to 50 more of those fabulous years.
Many happy returns of the day Kae!
Happy Birthday! This community is a better place with you in it!
Happy New Year of life! May you have many more.