Sheila Charlene Middlebrook — 1950-2015
On Wednesday morning, Dec. 23, 2015, my wife and best friend, Charlene Middlebrook, lost her long and courageous battle with cancer.
As with everything she did, Charlene handled the cancer and a subsequent stroke, with grace, courage, total resolve and of course her humor and her smile, once again being the hero in our family.
Charlene and I met here in Tahoe 35 years ago and soon discovered that we had both grown up in Southern California about two miles apart. We worked hard, played hard, made many friends, raised our two sons and enjoyed every single minute of living in this beautiful place.
During the summers, Charlene took “The Boys” to every trail, lake and stream in the basin, taught them how to ski, coached them in soccer and was an unwavering advocate for their education. There are many, many teachers and counselors in our school district who are more than well aware of Charlene’s thoughts on education. The result of that is two very successful and accomplished young men.
Charlene was a hair stylist for almost 40 years and made many great friends with her business. We joked that when I was doing news at the radio station that about half of my news came from her shop, which she shared with her friends, Joanne, Roxanne, Pam and Leo.
Charlene was preceded in death by her parents, Ada Lee and Charlie Henderson of Paramount, Calif. She is survived by her beloved sons, Devin (Ashley) and Grant (Kelsey), and my son, Matt (Lisa) and my daughter, Monica (Alex), and our grandchildren; Julia, Brady, Grace, Claire, and Della. She also leaves behind her sister, Lynette of Irvine, Calif., and her brother Rick (Margaret) of Hollydale, cousin and best friend Judy Lampshire of Carson City and her husband, Mike, and their children and grandchildren.
We want to thank the staff of Renown Cancer Institute, but most important, the staff, physicians and nurses of Barton Memorial Hospital and Barton Skilled Nursing. Their care, dedication and kindness added time and quality to Charlene’s life. We know that she touched your hearts as you touched hers. Special thanks to Angie, Jill, Christine, Gil, June, Kelly, Heather, Ibeth, Patrick and Amy, and Jason Collin for always being there for us. You will always be like family. I also want to thank Barton Hospice for getting us through Charlene’s final day. And a very special thanks to the man who could always get Charlene to smile through this, our friend Dr. Henning Mehrens.
Charlene always saw the good in everything and everyone. I will miss her kindness, her strength, her love, her humor, her smile … and those incredibly beautiful green eyes.
Please remember Charlene by donating whatever you can to the American Cancer Society.
We will not have services at this time, but may have a memorial this summer.
— Paul Middlebrook
Deepest sympathy to the Middlebrook family. May Charlene Rest in Peace.
Charlene was hands down one the nicest people I’ve known, not only here in Lake Tahoe, but in my whole life. I’m deeply saddened by this news and send my thoughts and prayers out to the Middlebrook family.
Charlene, your smile will be greatly missed in our community.
Love and Respect
My condolences to Paul and Devin.
I had no idea Paul, my heartfelt condolences. Your thoughts speak volumes about your beloved Charlene. You’ve both made Tahoe a better community.
Very sorry to hear about Charlene’s passing, Paul.
My condolences…
Heartfelt thoughts to the Middlebrook Family, to Paul & Devin…
Condolences from my family to yours, Paul. Cancer sucks.
My deepest condolences on your loss.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Prayers for healing…there is no easy way through this, but we do get through it. Blessed be.
all the best to you and your family Paul. Charlene was delightful and holds a special spot for those who knew her.
I was lucky to have known her, we’ll all miss her. Love to your family.
We are going to miss her special smile, and our heartfelt thoughts go out to you and the family. We were lucky to have known her.
Paul, I am so very sorry to hear of your loss, I still remember the first time I met Charlene, TJ’s the night before Curt and I got Married, 34 years ago. She became my hair guru and I enjoyed chatting with her every 6 weeks or so. I know it’s been a long time since we have seen you but you are still in our hearts. Joni & Curt Weckel- San Juan Capistrano
P.s. My brother Tony Martinez sends his thoughts and prayers as well.
Paul, wonderfully written about a wonderful person. How blessed I’ve been to be included in your lives all these years. My prayers and blessings to you.
Paul, very sorry for your loss. Peace.
There are no words.
I’m so sorry to learn of Charlene’s passing. My heart goes out to all your family.