LTN Book Club: ‘Dying Words’ full of life
By Kathryn Reed
It’s been a long time since I’ve read a book that I didn’t want to end. And for someone who isn’t much of a fan of fiction, that speaks volumes.
“Dying Words” (NaCl Press, 2012) by K. Patrick Conner is a novel that takes readers into the life of an obituary writer at the San Francisco Chronicle. Those jobs don’t exist anymore. Newspaper jobs barely exist, let alone such a specialty.
Conner was a reporter at the Chronicle, so he was able to accurately capture some of the nuances of the paper, and certainly The City. (Since I was an editor there, I can vouch for much of the authenticity.)
“Dying Words” is much more than life at a newspaper. It’s about life itself.
Grayden Hubbell is the main character. Now in his 70s, his sole job at the paper is to write obituaries. The love of his life died decades ago, and yet there is still love to be had even in his dying days.
Conner has a way with words that is poetic, as well as captivating. He makes you care about the characters and connect to them.
It’s hard for me to know if the tears I shed were for the story or the reality about the state of newspapers or both.
No matter your feelings about newspapers, this is a story about people, and the importance of the connections people have in their lifetimes.
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· Please join in the discussion via commenting. Feel free to pose questions.
· Questions: If you knew you were dying, would you change your life and how? Should Grayden have been let go when he was given bad information? Have you thought about what you would want your obituary to say?
· The next book is “Tribe: On Homecoming and Belonging” by Sebastian Junger. The review will be posted April 1.
I loved this book. His prose was off the charts in every little description, including the intricate character details of his colleagues. The author truly placed me in a time I look back on fondly. It’s hard not to become invested in Grayson, as he maneuvered through life.
I don’t think he should have been fired as it was a blip in a long, storied career that ended in a job so personal to the the human connection for newspapers.
If I was dying and knew it, I do believe I would alter my life plan to an accelerated pace in finding places to chill out to be still more. As Tim McGraw would put it “love sweeter,” but maybe waiting isn’t the answer. Maybe to “live like you were dying” is better.
Questions:
If you knew you were dying, would you change your life and how?
Should Grayden have been let go when he was given bad information?
Have you thought about what you would want your obituary to say?